Does My Ex Still Love Me? A Quiz And 5 Fantastic Little-Known Tips
Heartbreak! That’s probably the only word I can think of when
cute, love-struck couples tell me that their long-standing,
fun-filled, beautiful, almost picture-perfect relationship has
failed to withstand the real test of time. Of course, never once
during the super-spectacular, whirlwind romance does the man or the
woman feel that their future would take a turn for the worse.
Their friends get talking, and add fuel to the fire with a barrage
of inexplicable questions. But how? Who was responsible for them
breaking up? Why, even the horoscopes that add a healthy dose of
spice to the newspaper did not have any doomsday predictions for
this cozy twosome? After all, wasn’t this that too-good-to-be-true
match with marriage on the cards? Moreover, there was no
keep-breaking-up-and-getting-back together syndrome that plagued
their dating sessions. They were seeing each other for years now.
Ouch!
To him, she was not to be flaunted like just another trophy
girlfriend. Here was a gift from the heavens, to which he had
willingly and rather hopelessly surrendered his single status. He
always yearned to see her as his wife decked in that bridal ensemble
on their wedding day.
And before you make snap judgments about the lack of commitment,
rest assured he had left his former virile and sophisticated
Casanova image far, far behind. He was her ‘Mr Right’; her soul mate
that she believed would make the best spouse in the whole wide
world. Alas! It’s only those mind numbing
how-to-get-over-an-ex-boyfriend advice and counseling sessions
presided over by well-meaning friends that suffuse her dark, caustic
and utterly depressing existence.
I told you, things are never easy after a break-up or a divorce,
even if you’ve tried every trick in the book to get rid of the
specters of the past. Your life and that aching heart are still
redolent of those wonderful memories.
Can I Get My Ex Back?
Despite all the bitterness and the agony, there’s still one part of
you that urges you to get back together. ‘Does my ex still love me’,
is the thought that lurks in the deep crevices of your mind, every
time you come across that lovely photo of the two of you in your
bedroom.
But if you are constantly thinking about your husband or boyfriend,
maybe it is time to make an earnest attempt to win back your ex. If
you are thoroughly convinced, worry not, for I have a few fantastic
tips that will change your world forever.
Let’s Set The Record Straight
Before you treat my pronouncement with absolute derision, let me set
the record straight. For starters, contrary to popular perception,
it is not well-neigh impossible to get your heartthrob back. That’s
of course if you don’t press the panic button, and scream out your
intensions from the rooftops.
Also, your ambitious plans are sure to fall by the wayside if he
feels that there’s no future for the two of you together. So
discretion is the mantra that you need to follow. Go on, get a life,
and if possible, a spanking new lifestyle as well. Have a blast with
friends, but just make sure he gets wind of your shenanigans. Play
hard to get, at all costs. From fleeting curiosity to pure guilt to
complete helplessness, watch him go through a cauldron of emotions
with sadistic pleasure. The rest, as they say, is bound to go down
in history books as the best kiss-and-make-up tale of all time.
Help! I’m Completely
Muddle-Headed
Now before even the thoughts of winning his affections all over
again cross your mind, it’s important to be absolutely clear about
your intensions. Do you really want to give this relationship
another shot, or is it that bruised ego that’s calling the shots?
Come on, be honest with yourself. Think of the adage, ‘it’s no point
flogging a dead horse’, and you are sure to figure out for yourself.
You may have made up your mind, but what about him? Does he also
long for your presence in his quiescent life? If you are finding it
hard to get your head around all this, maybe you should give this
fascinating little quiz a full-on shot:
- Does he still long to hear your voice on the phone? What about
those text messages that make you go weak in the knees?
- Is he a compulsive attention seeker? Are his antics getting on
your nerves?
- Have you caught him staring at you with that forlorn look in
his eyes?
- Finally, is he still keen to know whether you’re seeing
somebody else?
One doesn’t require the genius of a rocket scientist to figure out
that if all the answers to these questions are a resounding yes; you
have plenty to make a song and dance about. Atta girl! Your man
still has his eyes only and only for you.
Five Fabulous Little-Known
Tips
What’s a mission without a concrete plan? A damp squib, quite
frankly. So, before you cage your man’s life in an elaborate and
eternal web of love and passion, make sure you unite matters of the
heart with some mind games. Here’s how:
- Get out of that panic-mode as fast as possible.
- Slow and steady wins the race, remember? So don’t bludgeon him
with a spate of phone calls and messages. This could be misconstrued
as an act of extreme anxiety. It’s important to be discreet and very
tactful.
- Once you do manage to strike up a conversation, make sure the
break-up is relegated to the background. No more fights and
arguments about the entire episode.
- However, it would be prudent to let bygones be bygones and make
peace with the situation. This one move is sure to give you an upper
hand in the relationship.
- Develop a new-found resilience and strength, and use this
redoubtable force to work on the dynamics of basic human nature.
Before even you know it, he’ll be down on his knees.
I sincerely hope these words of wisdom provide that much-needed
healing touch. So without any further delay, it’s time to let verve
and high-spirits imbue your life and his. Happy hunting.
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