What Does It Mean When An Ex Boyfriend Ignores You? Secrets Unraveled
All your attempts to make peace with your erstwhile lover boy have proved feckless. You are at your wits end trying to make him see reason, but he seems to be steadfast in spurning your advances. While some of your friends believe that he’s just feeling a little diffident in acknowledging your presence before friends, others opine that he’s completely confused about the status of your relationship.
Whatever the reason, you have clearly run out of patience. But you will stop at nothing to get to the truth.
Mixed Signals
If you are not able to comprehend your ex’s reactions to your advances, there’s no need to get flustered. Although it may be quite a task trying to figure what’s really going on in his mind, it’s definitely not impossible.
If you’ve just broken up then chances are that he’s either trying hard to break free from the shackles of this bond, or that he’s making an earnest attempt to suppress even an iota of romantic feelings for you.
If it’s the first reason, then it simply means that he wants to be left alone to be able to sort out all those confusing thoughts going on in his mind. Remember, if you are on the brink of an emotional meltdown after the breakup, he’s no better. You must consider yourself providential if he responds to your incessant calls and emails, and asks you for more space. In that case, you must accord due respect to his appeal, and leave him alone till he manages to infuse some semblance of order in his topsy-turvy life.
But if it’s the second reason, he will try to avoid you for the fear that staying in touch might just rekindle that sizzling chemistry. Sometimes, he just may not be interested in giving this relationship another shot. In this scenario, it’s best to accept reality and move on with your life.
The end of one relationship does not mean the end of the world, remember?
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